Questions we might discuss in our counseling:

How will I know when it is time to say good bye?

How can I manage all of my overwhelming feelings?

Are the feelings I am having normal?

What questions should I be asking my veterinarian?

How will I know it is the right time to euthanize my pet?

Should I be present at the euthanasia?

How can I be more prepared for an impending death?

How do I talk with my veterinarian about choices I need to make?

How do I determine my pets “quality of life”?

How will I know whether or not to get another pet?

How do I help my family cope?

What do I say to my children?

How do I decide how much treatment to do?

When should I consider getting a 2nd opinion?

How do I manage my “anticipatory” grief?

How do I manage the rest of my life while I am going through all of this?

How to I come to terms with the choices I made?

How do I let go and move on?

How do I hold him/her in my heart so that I will never forget.

Will I ever let myself love a pet as much again? Should I?

How can I take care of myself and get support from people who just don’t understand?

What arrangements should I make for my pet’s remains?

How can I set up a memorial for my pet?

How much grief should I expect to feel?

AUDREY R. SPECTOR, L.M.F.T., (#34520)